When a couple decides to divorce, communication is often one of the first things to break down. This can lead to months – or even years – of animosity and bickering. The good news is that mediation can help open communication during divorce, and it has a number of other benefits as well.
How Does Mediation Open Communication?
Mediation is focused on effective communication between spouses as they work together to create agreements for their divorce. This means that the mediator will help facilitate discussions and provide a space for both parties to share their perspectives. The goal is to help the couple resolve their contested issues and move on with their lives.
This process can be beneficial for couples who are able to communicate effectively. It allows them to focus on their issues and find a resolution that works for both of them. Additionally, mediation provides an opportunity for collaboration – something that is often lacking in a divorce process.
Facilitated Discussions Led By A Neutral Mediator
During the mediation process, a neutral mediator will lead discussions and ensure that both parties have a chance to share their insights. This can help open communication in the sense that it allows for a neutral party to facilitate difficult conversations and keep everything on track.
The mediator can also provide guidance and facilitate problem-solving – something that can be especially helpful for couples who may not know how to communicate effectively during such a challenging time. With the help of the mediator, a divorcing couple can begin to open lines of communication during the divorce process and prepare for an amicable future.
Focusing On The Couple’s Contested Issues
One of the main focuses of mediation is addressing and resolving contested issues and top priorities. This allows both parties to focus on their specific concerns and find a resolution that works for both of them. Together, they can explore different arrangements for the allocation of parenting time, create holiday time-sharing agreements, divide the property they both wish to retain, and more.
Focusing on these issues can also help open communication, allowing the couple to address any lingering conflicts and reach a mutual understanding.
Giving Both Parties Perspective On Their Contested Issues
Mediation allows each party to share their perspective on contested issues and allows them to understand the other’s point of view. This can help open communication by better understanding where the other person is coming from and potentially finding common ground.
Often, individuals only see their desires during the divorce process, making it difficult to create divorce agreements for difficult or sensitive contested items. By better understanding where your spouse stands in this process, you can create agreements that benefit both parties.
Providing An Opportunity To Collaborate With Your Spouse
Divorce can often lead to a breakdown in communication and collaboration between spouses. Mediation provides an opportunity for the couple to work together and find solutions that work for both of them. This can help open communication by allowing for a more productive, cooperative dynamic.
Overall, mediation can be a valuable tool for couples who are able to communicate effectively during the divorce process. It focuses on addressing contested issues and finding resolutions through collaboration and facilitated discussions with a neutral mediator. This can lead to a smoother, less contentious divorce process and open the lines of communication for the future.
How Can I Include Mediation In My Divorce Process?
While creating divorce agreements, you and your spouse might only immediately agree on some things. If you would like the guidance and assistance of a mediator, you can talk to your divorce attorney about utilizing mediation to help create the best divorce agreements for your family. Your divorce attorney might have a mediator they have worked with before or can help you set up an appointment with a mediator in your area.
No matter what stage of the divorce process you are in, it can be worth considering utilizing mediation as a tool for communication and collaboration with your spouse. It can make a potentially challenging time easier to navigate and lead to a better outcome for both parties.
Partnering With You for a Successful Future
At Knies, Helland & McPherson, we understand that no two cases are alike. Our team is committed to finding the best solutions for you and your family as you navigate your family law matters. From mediation to litigation, our team can help you create a personalized approach to your contested issues and create a divorce agreement best for your family.
Schedule a consultation with a member of our team today to learn more about how we can help make your divorce as smooth and successful as possible. Get started by calling us at (719) 626-8530. We are waiting for your call!