Holiday Parenting Schedules

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The holiday season is a time of joy, celebration, and cherished moments with loved ones. However, for divorced parents in Colorado, it can also bring about the complexities of navigating parenting schedules during these special times. Creating a balanced and harmonious schedule that prioritizes the well-being of the children while accommodating both parents' desires to spend quality time with them becomes paramount.

In Colorado, in addition to the regular weekly parenting time, parenting plans and orders also to address holiday schedules explicitly. These plans aim to distribute time fairly between both parents, ensuring that children have the opportunity to enjoy meaningful experiences with each side of their family. These plans are usually part of the divorce decree and include details about the schedule for Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year's, and other significant holidays. The schedule may rotate annually or follow a predetermined pattern.

Some Common Holiday Parenting Schedules in Colorado are:

  1. Alternating Holidays: Some parenting plans rotate holidays each year, with one parent having the children for Thanksgiving in even-numbered years and the other in odd-numbered years. The same pattern may apply to Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, New Year's Eve, and New Year's Day.
  2. Splitting the Holiday: In this arrangement, the holiday is divided into specific time blocks, allowing the children to spend part of the day with each parent. For instance, one parent may have the children for the first half of Christmas Day, while the other parent has them for the latter part.
  3. Extended Visitation: Some plans allow for extended visitation during the holiday period, where one parent may have the children for a more extended period, such as the entirety of winter break, while the other parent celebrates with them before or after the holiday.

Tips for Successful Holiday Co-Parenting:

  1. Communication is Key: Open and clear communication between co-parents is crucial. Discussing plans in advance and being flexible can help alleviate stress and ensure a smoother holiday experience for everyone involved.
  2. Focus on the Children: Always prioritize the children's well-being. Keep their needs and emotions at the forefront when making holiday plans.
  3. Plan Ahead: Anticipate potential conflicts or issues and address them beforehand. Plan activities and traditions that create lasting memories for the children.
  4. Be Flexible: Sometimes unexpected events or changes in circumstances might require adjustments to the schedule. Being adaptable can help reduce tension and create a more relaxed atmosphere.

Navigating holiday parenting schedules as a divorced parent in Colorado can be challenging, but with careful planning, effective communication, and a focus on the children's happiness, it's possible to create enjoyable and memorable holiday experiences for everyone involved. The attorneys at Knies, Helland, and McPherson Law are experienced in crafting and advocating for their clients for holiday schedules for their children.

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